I (32m) started seeing prostitutes when I was 20 and have done it on and off up to my current age. I find the lack of sexual and emotional connection lures me into to seeing them even when I say I’m going to stop. Whenever I am doing decent financially I end up going back to seeing them. I try to be a spiritual person and read the bible and not lust over women but it can be a struggle and mental battle. Does anyone else have this same bad habit?
A couple things. My status in life such as job and living situation. My confidence to approach women although that’s getting fined tuned lately. My physical appearance of being out of shape. That’s all I can think of rn. Actually never been in a relationship before
You’d be surprised how little most people actually care about most of that stuff.
Practice talking to people especially women. Ask a random person at the grocery store what kind of spaghetti sauce they recommend. If you’re awkward, who cares? If they think anything bad about you because of it, you never have to see them again. People aren’t as scary as we make them out to be. It’s just that inner monologue that makes you doubt yourself.
You need to be bad at something before you’re good at something, in almost every thing in life. You have to go thru bad relationships before you’ll understand what’s a good one. Just be willing to learn and end things when it’s time.