Born in 01. I’m excited to be 24 and have a celebration with my girlfriend and family, but I feel OLD.

What is the cutoff? When do you stop being a young woman?

(I was going to say I wish I was still around 10 years younger when I realized that people born in 2011 are going to be/are 14 and not 5.)

Other edit: It’s been almost 8 years since my Sweet 16. Holy crap. My sister was 6.

    • Altima NEO
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      293 months ago

      I mean anyone before 40, really. Once 40, you’re middle aged.

      • @[email protected]
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        103 months ago

        The “young adult” category is usually cut off by 30, though, according to Meetup groups and age-restricted social groups I’ve seen online.

        • @[email protected]
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          63 months ago

          According to u.s. law, age discrimination kicks in at 40. If you’re under 40 they can say you’re too young.

          • @[email protected]
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            3 months ago

            I don’t understand; who is the hypothetical “they” and why would you get kicked out for anything just for being under as opposed to over 40?

            • @[email protected]
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              13 months ago

              Employers can’t discriminate against people for being 40+ for housing it’s 55+ they can legally say you’re too young to work or live somewhere

  • Sami
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    183 months ago

    18-24 usually gets grouped together for census and survey stuff so you got a good year left in the tank before you’re part of the 25-44 crowd

    • @[email protected]
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      63 months ago

      And a decade or so before your targeted ads switch from fast fashion, adventure holidays and entertainment to things like lawn care products and orthopedic footwear.

  • @[email protected]
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    163 months ago

    You can consider yourself whatever you want for however long you want.

    If you feel young and people thing you are weird for saying so that is their problem. Young is a feeling not a number.

    • djsoren19
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      23 months ago

      See but the crazy part is that it just keeps get worse! One day you wake up and have back pain in places you didn’t even know could hurt!

      • @[email protected]
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        23 months ago

        I used to think that but for “anyone born in a year after my birth year”, but now I look at some such people and realize that all people eventually turn older. :/ OP is a lot younger than even that though.

      • @[email protected]
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        3 months ago

        Yeah, come on, of course. “Young” = no one would question the chromosomal health of your baby if you chose to have one right now. So it’s in the 30s when that starts to get shaky, but certainly not the 20s.

          • @[email protected]
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            13 months ago

            So let’s have your better definition. Remember we’re talking about young adults, not literal young like kids.

            • @[email protected]
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              23 months ago

              I dunno, to be honest. But for me, reproductive changes are a consequence of age, not the other way around. No single factor feels like it in itself is a sensible definition.

                • @[email protected]
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                  13 months ago

                  Not my experience, but that might depend on the people one interacts with. I’d also say that coupling being young to such a gendered parameter is questionable. When does someone who’s biologically male stop being young? What about people who can’t reproduce?

  • @[email protected]
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    73 months ago

    OP, every day for the rest of your life you’re going to be the oldest you’ve ever been. As time goes on, that age will even become a number you never much thought about or imagined yourself reaching. Around 24 you have pretty much passed all the major rites of initiation and markers of adulthood. There’s nothing else here except getting older. My advice is to get out that imagination and think about what you want your life to be at 50, because it will come.

  • Owl
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    73 months ago

    “Old” starts at 60-65, not 24 xD

  • Bonje
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    63 months ago

    M26. I feel old as shit and it’s only gonna get worse. A lot of it is your attitude and environment, something i’m struggling with rn. You can still be young in your 60ies if you have wonderful people surrounding you.

    • @[email protected]
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      13 months ago

      So much of life is mindset. My momma is in her later senior years and still acts 25 in many ways (in a good way lol)

  • @[email protected]
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    63 months ago

    Young and old is relative. I side with those saying young is until 40, then you’re middle aged.

    • darreninthenet
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      33 months ago

      Whereas I’m in my late 40s and don’t feel particularly old… if anyone describe me as middle aged I’d assume they were joking around 😂

      • @[email protected]
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        13 months ago

        I’d just presume they mean you’re no spring chicken anymore. I’m in my late 30s, don’t feel old at all, most people say I look ten years younger than my actual age. But I don’t feel like I belong in the same category as someone in their 20s. Middle aged would be the most appropriate way to describe me in a couple years, even if I don’t look the part.

  • @[email protected]
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    63 months ago

    Yes. You’re still young enough where you don’t seem out of place going to bars every friday night, and hanging out of the tops of limos going WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO as the limo drives down the street. The driver isn’t annoyed that you’re not acting your age. The driver is annoyed that his job is basically glorified babysitter on wheels.

    But as a young woman, you need all of the advice. You need to do all the things. See all the stuff. And my advice is to do nothing. Relax, don’t do it. When you want to go do it. Relax. Don’t do it. When you want to come.

    All the advice. None of the advice. Do everything. Do nothing. Life is all about making decisions. Some decisions you’ll love having made. Others you’ll later regret. Life is all about finding the road that leads to self acceptance and inner peace.

    But shoot it in the right direction. We’re making it your intention. Live those dreams. Scheme those schemes. Got to hit me with those laser beams! Ow ow ow! Laser beam me! 1, 2, 3, 4

  • @[email protected]
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    53 months ago

    Even after 40, there’s no shortage of people calling you “young”. The actually young people don’t call you “old” the same way. Just be glad you’re alive.