I am aware of

  • Sea-lioning
  • Gaslighting
  • Gish-Galloping
  • Dogpiling

I want to know I theres any others I’m not aware of

  • @[email protected]
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    Fallacy accusations.

    When someone does not want to argue about your points they will attack the way you used to made them. If you check hard enough you can find fallacies in most online conversations. So if someone wants they could easily accuse anyone of making this or that fallacy. Some of them being also kind of subjective. Was this a valid example or was it a strawman?

    They would just change the debate subject and put you on the defensive defending yourself of making fallacies.

    I just usually point out this attitude and end the debate when this happens.

    • Robust Mirror
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      Man that’s such a strawman, you’re completely misrepresenting why they bring up fallacies.

  • @[email protected]
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    The one I see the most is just playing dumb and pretending not to understand basic things

  • Constant Pain
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    Someone started talking about my hair in the profile picture on a discussion on another site because they didn’t agree with what I said.

    When people do shit like this I just disengage. Life is too short to waste with bad faith arguments.

  • @[email protected]
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    I’ll give you a huge one.

    Purity tests (when cosplaying as liberals). If a person isn’t super-duper liberal on every single issue then you can’t support them.

    There’s tons of this on this very site. People who will tell you they’ll stay home and not vote for someone, if they only support 80% of what they seemingly want. People see this, then emulate said behavior.

    Somehow, liberals would rather get 0% of what they want instead of 50% because of the missed 30% that the candidate doesn’t support.

    • Constant Pain
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      Politicians you don’t like can make good policies and politicians you do like can make bad policies. Parties are not football teams for you to take blind sides and politicians are not celebrities to be veneered blindly. They are public servants, nothing more.

      It’s a global phenomenon, but Americans are particularly affect by the false dichotomy fallacy of having the two sides of political spectrum represented when, in reality, they just have two flavors of right to choose from. Both are shit in their own way.

      People love to turn off their brains and follow the leadership. That’s what makes us easily manipulable. It’s not because someone aligns politically with you that they are working with your best interest in mind.

      Sorry for the random rambling.

      • DefederateLemmyMl
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        Oh look we got a live one!

        Mods: if you’re going to remove comments, at least have the guts to say you want to maintain your echo chamber instead of hiding behind rule 5, which this comment does not violate.

      • @[email protected]
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        The problem is, the other option is 70% genocide. So by not voting for the 30% genocide, you’re enabling the 70% genocide.

        • @[email protected]
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          No, I mean the 30% of their policy that we disagree with is their 100% support for genocide.

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            And the republicans have 70% of their policy be genocide. Not just genocide of the palestinians, but genocide of non-gender conforming people and non-straight people.

            It’s like comparing someone who doesn’t care that someone in another country is killing people, with someone who actively wants to kill people in your own back yard, and also doesn’t give a shit that someone is killing people in another country. By not voting for the first person, you’re allowing the second person do to whatever they want.

            Edit to add: Democrats will let palestinians die horribly. That is bad and needs to be adressed.

            But:

      • @[email protected]
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        Since I am not american I may have missed something; to my knowledge no genocide got stopped or even prevented since trump once again got to power. What is your opinion on this matter?

  • @[email protected]
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    37 hours ago

    Motte and bailey.

    • “The Kingdom of Foo has no inequality!”
    • “Actually it has quite a bit…”
    • “Well it’s still moving in the right direction, and that’s what really matters.”
    • @[email protected]
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      I hate the one where you call them a fascist (because they literally are) and then they come around and call you a “blue MAGA”.

      like bitch, if I was “blue MAGA” I’d be making IEDs and forcing abortions on women and shit. ain’t nobody got time for that. I’m building a garden so I can fuckin eat this year.

      • @[email protected]
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        11 hour ago

        Calling someone “blue MAGA” is the equivalent of saying “no you!”

        However, it’s time to stop pretending like some small group of “MAGA” conservatives have hijacked the party and taken things too far. The monied interests backing Trump are the same as have been backing Republicans for decades. The Federalist Society, the Heritage Foundation, etc. Mitch McConnell has been working to fill the federal courts with Federalist picks for a long time. Picking or just outright manufacturing court cases that would set new precedents. Hell, even those thinktanks are just recent iterations of the same interest’s attempts to shape the government as they see fit. Trump is just a nepo baby turned grifter who got lucky because his grift was actually effective at attracting and controlling the loudest segment of the Republican base.

        Trump just transparently said “As long as I get filthy rich, get to be king, and you keep [metaphorically] sucking my dick, I’ll keep my followers in line and use my position to put your people in power so they can implement your ‘Project 25’ or whatever.” Republicans mostly objected to him because he lacked subtlety and was transparently greedy and petty. He ignored the game of slow, subtle changes and manipulation through “decorum” that Republicans had become experts in. Unfortunately for us, that worked wonders on a subset of the population

        The people who helped those Republican politicians keep getting elected and basically wrote their proposed laws noticed Trump was popular. When it became apparent that Trump’s followers were loyal, the money jumped at the chance to fast track their vision and backed him completely. They helped tweak and hone Trump’s message to amplify his grifter magic. That plus some changes to election laws around the country, gerrymandering, and likely other more covert, extralegal vote manipulation got him back in power.

      • @[email protected]
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        No, I think you have the definition of that word wrong blue Maga is just the people on the left that are making money, commenting, andreacting to the shit people do on the right. CNN and MSNBC telling us the latest bullshit Trump has done is a blue Maga type behavior

  • @[email protected]
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    Strawmanning because they won’t or can’t understand your argument, mistaking the map for the place usually because of equivocating on vaguely understood or multiple definitions, non-sequetor this is where someone just yaps for awhile based on the crap that falls out of their head based on the words they heard but didn’t get the point and is barely tracking

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    There’s another type I see often here with these kinds of assholes. It’s intentionally misconstruing or reaching the wrong conclusions about what the other person is saying. It’s a form of strawmanning. They’ll move the argument just a bit to the side, drop a false zinger that could fit the original narrative if you squint hard enough, and accuse you of saying or doing horrible shit when in reality you’re saying something else.

    And guess what, the people reading do not give a shit. They’ll just dogpile if you try to fight it because Lemmy is wonderful like that and people here are so nice and critical.

  • Omega
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    Online arguements take ten times the energy to put in than to exit out, any well thought arguement could be shut down just by ignoring it, or making up reasons to avoid confronting it (whataboutism for example)

  • @[email protected]
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    I see ad hominem very often as well as strawmanning. Specifically on lemmy people will say tankie/auth or irl they’ll say woke/liberal and then use those insults to further strawman argumenents. Specifically multiple times I have said “hey I voted Kamala but her policies deeply concern me”, and people responded with “Uhh how dare you not vote Kamala and openly declare you hate democracy, freedom, and trans people”.

    • @[email protected]
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      The other way happens as well. You can say you voted harris because its the lesser of 2 evils, then someone calls you genocider… 🤦‍♂️

      Like, people forget how FPTP systems work.

      • @[email protected]
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        Or I can say that I voted Kamala and I still hate that she supported genocide and get called a tankie.

        • Dragon Rider (drag)
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          What you need to keep in mind is that it’s not just voting, it’s also campaigning. If you’re a citizen who has opinions you share with your friends, that’s one thing. If you own a large online community that consistently puts out propaganda, that’s another thing. That’s campaigning. Voting for a candidate while campaigning against that same candidate is an action that confuses other people, because it’s self-defeating.

          • @[email protected]
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            So we’ve moved from “you have to vote for the Democrats” to “you can’t publicly criticize the Democrats”

  • @[email protected]
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    I have never seen an online discussion where gaslighting was used. People usually just learned the term and they think it’s a synonym for lying.

    • @[email protected]
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      Gaslighting could take the form of saying “my political team would never do [the thing].” Their political team subsequently does [the thing]. Then claiming they never said the original statement. Sometimes they’re even so fucking stupid as to leave that comment visible so you can just screenshot it and ask “this you?”

      … ask me how I know.

      • @[email protected]
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        How is that not just lying?

        Gaslighting (if my understanding is correct) is manipulating someone. Making someone question their own sanity, blaming them, isolating from other people and making them dependent on you.

        Lying on the internet to win a stupid argument with a stranger hardly can even start to measure to that.

        • @[email protected]
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          Gaslighting is lying but not all lying is gaslighting. Think overt propaganda but on a more personal level

        • @[email protected]
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          From my example, the part where they claim to have not made the argument is what I’d consider gaslighting. My understanding of gaslighting is any attempt to make someone question reality. So the reality is they definitely said one thing. When that goes wrong, they claim to have never said it. It’s a tool of someone who manipulates.

          • @[email protected]
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            Then almost any blatant lie would be gaslighting, which I don’t think fits the meaning. My understanding is there are more necessary attributes for a situation to be “gaslighting”, mainly the manipulation and dependency.

            If someone lies about what they said in writing (in the age of internet archive of all things) it’s just a plain lie, and a dumb one at that.

      • @[email protected]
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        Basically every step of the narcissists prayer is attempted gaslighting

        That didn’t happen. And if it did, it wasn’t that bad. And if it was, that’s not a big deal. And if it is, that’s not my fault. And if it was, I didn’t mean it. And if I did, you deserved it.

        • Dragon Rider (drag)
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          Narcissus was so hard done by. The guy clearly was not interested in pursuing a relationship, but everyone was still asking him out all the time. That’s harassment. Rhamnusia shouldn’t have answered Ameinias’ prayer for vengeance. She should have just told Ameinias to get over it and stop staking his self worth on a guy who isn’t interested.

    • Lovable Sidekick
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      That’s the problem with relying on slang instead of real conversation. The desire to process our social media feeds as fast and with as little typing as possible means we encapsulate complex issues into ridiculously overgeneralized shorhand. We take in minimal information about each item, apply minimal quality control (mostly our own prejudices), use minimal thought to arrive at value judgements that make us feel morally impeccable, and spit out condensed replies. It’s superficial hillbilly-grade communication with a delusion of being informed, involved and enlightened.

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    Cherry picking is probably one of the most egregious

    You can make a university-level essay on a subject, and people will identify one tiny irrelevant detail they disagree with and ignore the overall point

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      Cherry pick and move the goal post.

      For example:

      University-level essays? You know for-profit universities exist, right? If you don’t have a masters degree on the subject, then you have no right to speak on the topic.

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        Oh shit you triggered me with “you don’t have the right” lol

        Yeah like I don’t have the right to talk about abortion, reproductive health, or anything like that because I don’t have ovaries

        I don’t live in a society, I don’t have a mother, sister, thousands of females in my life who I care about. I don’t get to advocate for women’s reproductive rights, because I don’t have the right bits in my crotchal area

        I also don’t get to express an opinion on anything that I am not a personal expert in. If I saw a helicopter with one of the blade snapped off, I’m not allowed to refuse boarding, because I’m not a helicopter maintenance technician. I don’t have the right to express my opinion on the subject

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    False dichotomy - Assuming that because someone doesn’t agree with one viewpoint, they must fully support the opposite. Framing the issue as if there are only two mutually exclusive positions, when in fact there may be many shades in between.
    Strawmanning - Misrepresenting someone’s argument - usually by exaggerating, distorting, or taking it out of context - so it’s easier to attack or refute.
    Ad hominem - Attacking the character, motives, or other traits of the person making the argument rather than addressing the substance of the argument itself.
    Reductionism - The tendency to reduce every complex issue to a single cause - like blaming everything on capitalism, fascism, patriarchy, etc. - while ignoring other contributing factors.
    Moving the goalposts - Changing the criteria of an argument or shifting its focus once the original point has been addressed or challenged - usually to avoid conceding.
    Hasty generalizations - Treating entire groups as if they’re uniform, attributing a trait or behavior of some individuals to all members of that group.
    Oversimplification - Ignoring the nuance and complexity inherent in most issues, reducing them to overly simple terms or black-and-white thinking.