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Good rule to live by

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Good rule to live by

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  • @[email protected]
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    I used to live by that rule, but it turns not everyone likes to be treated the way I like to be treated. So now I just ask how they want to be treated.

    Just a trick I picked up from the BDSM subs ;)

    • @[email protected]
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      Exactly. I had to learn this too. I am unusual in a number of ways. When I treat people how I want to be treated I am often mistreating them and damaging the relationship. People are different and need different things. You have to communicate rather than unilaterally apply your self-empathy.

    • @[email protected]
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      Yeah, there’s a lot of things IDGAF about myself (like my birthdays, etc.) that make it easy to forget that for other people it means a lot. So even if I’m a cool acquaintance I’ll be a shitty friend :(. I’m working on that

  • Iapar
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    9•2 years ago

    Nope, because what you want might differ from what they want. So the rule is: treat people how they want to be treated.

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  • @[email protected]
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    9•2 years ago

    second rule of figh club is you don’t talk about the golden rule

    • ivanafterall
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      2•2 years ago

      the golden rule

      In case you didn’t grow up with it, the golden rule comes from Jesus’ saying that no matter what it is, there exists pornography of it on the internet.

      • @[email protected]
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        i thought that was rule 34 from fight club

  • cry
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    8•2 years ago

    This has been my number 1 rule since I learned I was being an arse.

    • MrSilkworm
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      1•2 years ago

      Being an arse ain’t so bad

      • @[email protected]B
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        1•2 years ago

        Here is an alternative Piped link(s):

        Being an arse ain’t so bad

        Piped is a privacy-respecting open-source alternative frontend to YouTube.

        I’m open-source; check me out at GitHub.

  • SVcrossDO
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    5•2 years ago

    I want to be pegged.

    • @[email protected]
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      You know what you must do

  • some pirate
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    I will guess everyone is a masochist from now on

    • Wild Bill
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      You wouldn’t be wrong about me!

  • @[email protected]
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    4•2 years ago

    What if I want other people to fight me?

    • m_r_butts
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      • @[email protected]
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        I’d kinda say the opposite. Like hey man. Light taps. Hold me if you got a story you wanna play. I got fake blood in my shorts and can really sell it. Let’s give them a good show and I’ll see you at my bbq tomorrow.

    • @[email protected]
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      2•2 years ago

      I’m your huckleberry.

    • @[email protected]
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      If you’re hearing those rules in a basement, from him, good news

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  • @[email protected]
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    3•2 years ago

    In Tyler we trust.

  • @[email protected]
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    3•2 years ago

    But this meme breaks the first rule of Fight Club!

    • @[email protected]
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      Ah sorry I’m late. Was too busy sharing with people how awesome this fight club concept is. What’s the first rule of fight club?

      • @[email protected]
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        The first rule is don’t talk about the first club. The second rule is DO NOT TALK ABOUT THE FIGHT CLUB!

        I always forget most others but the 8th (which is the last one) is if you’re new, you have to fight.

    • @[email protected]
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      If you’re hearing Tyler durden describe the rules, in a basement, no, you are not.

  • @[email protected]
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    3•2 years ago

    That rule sounds nice, but people can have very different expectations. This is a rule that shouldn’t be followed strictly.

  • @[email protected]
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    3•2 years ago

    If I treated people how I want to be treated I would get arrested

  • @[email protected]
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    3•2 years ago

    The third rule of fight club is don’t yuck others yum.

  • @[email protected]
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    2•2 years ago

    What if I have self destructive tendencies?

    • @[email protected]
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      Then you are a menace to Society Inc. Begone foul creature

      • @[email protected]
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        2•2 years ago

        Are you treating me how you want to be treated?

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