It really was. Everyone was stunned when it happened. I hope she’s someplace good now.

Paradox of Tolerance

There were a lot more bio, history, and astrology nerds, too.

Paying attention to this presentation and waking myself to to give mine in 15 minutes and not sound like an undead drone.

Cool, thank you for the explanations!

I do want to watch that. It’s in my list of shows to watch one the first season is done. I normally don’t follow western animation or comics, but he’s so derpy I think it’ll be endearing enough for me to enjoy.

Can someone give me the gossip on fedinsfw.app and feddit.org? What are they? Why is db0zer defederated from feddit.org?

Assigned Female at Birth. Sounds better than ‘has a vagina/uterus’ IMO as I don’t want to label people by what genitals they have and sometimes that can change anyway.

Nah he’s right on the first part. I enjoy sex and would do it more if I didn’t have to deal with all the bullshit being AFAB brings.

Pregnancy. Its a huge deal. Even abortion is a huge deal. Abortions hurt. You have to get the meds. Its illegal in my state. The meds can fail then you have to have surgery.

Birth control. A fucking pain to take daily at the same time plus if you react bad to it oh well.

UTIs. I can’t have sex without getting a UTI. There is literally nothing that can be done about this other than take an antibiotic everytime I have sex. I have tried everything else.

Periods. You’re going to stain your sheets\towels. Don’t forget to take your tampon out.

There is no fun and flippant sex when you have an innie instead of an outtie, there is always baggage.

If I had a dick I’d be having so much more sex.

Hi OP, I’m an asexual woman with endometriosis and chronic pelvic pain. Coming at it from this perspective.

Consider that some people find fisting and stuffing jars up their butt pleasurable. People are really weird, so no matter what you think of someone is going to find it pleasurable. Just because they find something pleasurable doesn’t mean you also have to.

If you don’t find something pleasurable, that’s okay. You don’t have to do it, ever. How you describe your pain is how I feel trying to do butt stuff and I just absolutely do not want to engage with it because it doesn’t feel good. I’m not going to go to a doctor to get my butt examined so I can do butt stuff, and I’m sure most the men in this post telling you shit wouldn’t do that, either.

You can have sex without penetration, if you want to. It’s fine not to have sex at all. It’s also fine not to even masturbate. Sexuality shouldn’t be compulsory.

I have a friend who couldn’t do penetrative sex, so her and her husband went to sex clubs and did lots of kink stuff without penetration and she says it was great. Don’t limit yourself to the idea that sex is only penis in vagina. A lot of men to try to tell you that. Hanging out in queer communities has opened my mind to a lot of possibilities.

Vaginismus exists. You probably have it. Doctors are really shit at detecting it. Gynecologists generally only care about delivering babies. Its like my experience trying to get treated for endo. You don’t just go to a doctor and get treated for pelvic pain like a lot of comments seem to be handwaving. It’s a dehumanizing experience and your pain will probably be ignored anyway.

I personally vouch that pelvic floor physical therapists are amazing, but I totally get why someone wouldn’t want to do that. It’ll also probably take multiple doctors and all the pain and violation that comes with repeat exams so it’s completely valid not to engage with the medical system. It was not made for women.

It is perfectly okay to stay as you are and explore non penetrative sex.

That said, the actual answer to your question is that, yes, I am a woman who finds vaginal sex pleasurable. I don’t experience pain from it unless the endo is flaring. However, it causes chronic UTIs amid the other overmedicalized bullshit that sex brings when you are AFAB, so I don’t do it much anyway.

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I’ve always wanted to, but couldn’t think of a single skill I have that could transfer to being self-employed in a small town of my size. I’m in education and my training and degrees all reflect that. My hobbies are tech, but this town is too small for a need for PC repair. The phone repair place just went out of business. I don’t have an IT degree.

Nah, I agree entirely. I cringe very often when in her presence. She is the stereotypical oilfield money boomer.

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Ah, OK! So it’s basically de-enshittified Flicker.

My mom: I don’t want ad blocker I want to see what the ads are selling!

Also my mom: Malware ridden phone I have to clean every two months

She has a constant stream of useless, scammy shit from temu ripoffs being sent to her house constantly and I just had to get some AI face filter subscription she swears she didn’t sign up for off her bank account.

But she’ll constantly tell you how much she hates technology.

I’m just here to say nice username

I don’t wash dishes I use paper plates and forks.

We can’t get a dishwasher. The pipes to the house are too messed up. The sink was designed for someone way taller than me so I have to lean forward and get soaked on the cabinet that tilts forwards towards me instead of back towards the sink.

If I’m in chronic pain then I’m going to want to be high too. Nothing wrong with being high in your own house.

-I don’t even like weed. The high just feels like taking benedryl to me.

Spicetify has an anti AI extension for songs known to be AI, but I can’t say how effective it is.